The Tipping Point

The week before last, the fourth sequence finished, so I had to evaluate my students. Due to recent changes to my luck, I now only teach one level and on two days a week! I was looking forward to some downtime and more days to recover from teaching.

Everybody knows the phrase "the straw that broke the camel's back."

I had evaluated my students on Tuesday and spent all evening Tuesday and all day and all night Wednesday (and even into Thursday morning) grading my exams. It was not quite the depressing experience that it generally is, because this time there was one perfect score and more than 10 (out of 140+) students passed!

I had decided during my last sequence that I would do something to "motivate" my students. "Motivation" is top secret code (or Cameroonian slang) for bribery. In this case, the bribe was one pen each for the top 10 scoring students.

I had all 140+ students at one time, which is unusual and hasn't happened for ages (besides exam days). I got them all settled down by talking nonsense to them (English) and proceeded to announce the top grades and present them with their pens. Everyone applauded and was really happy for them...until I ran out of pens.

Then it was all DONNE-MOI MON PART!!! OU EST MON BIC?! JE N'AI PAS DE BIC, MADAME!!!! (Give me mine! Where's my pen? I don't have a pen, ma'am!)

I calmed down the riot and got everyone back to their seats and then called the heads of the classes up (Carpentry, Home Ec, Electricity, Masonry) to collect the exams for their sections.

...and it was back to the riot. OU EST MON EVALUATION?! ELLE A VOLE MON EVALUATION!!! ELLE EST EN TRAIN DE DECHIRER MON EVALUATION!!! MADAME, VOUS AVEZ ECRIT UN 8 ICI; POURQUOI J'AI UN ZERO?! (Where's my exam? She stole my exam and now she's tearing it up! Ma'am, you wrote an 8 here - why do I have a 0?)

I did the mature, adult thing and I put my arms out and said if I could touch them, they were too close. I felt weird doing it, but they really were breathing my air.

I got the students back in their desks and proceeded with a very angry lecture:

   Do you like getting zeros on your exams? Do you like having mediocre grades? If so, leave. Do you like to waste your time and mine? Leave. Do you like to waste your parents money and keep your classmates from learning? Leave, because I've had enough. Why am I here, if you learn nothing?

I had two students leave class. I did not miss them. After I let them sit in stunned and shamed silence for maybe 30 seconds, I turned around to write the correct answers to the exam on the board. I got all the way until 'second person plural,' before it happened.

The board fell on the floor and tried to take out my left foot. The students immeadiately started screaming and shouting and carrying on about how it was sorcery that made it fall. I turned around, closed my eyes and took a deep breath. It was one of those moments where you either have to laugh or to cry. Ever the pragmatist, I chose laughter, because if I cried, my students would just be worse for the rest of the year.

I left my classroom at the end of class and was happy that I had my sunglasses with me, because I had that moment, the tipping point moment, where that last thing just pushes you over the edge. Mine was having that board fall, I looked at it and thought, "This is one of those moments that would send someone home."

Luckily, I am very stubborn and a weekend in Bertoua fixed me up just right.

What I've been up to

Nothing much. The end.

Sadly, this is not too far from the truth. I finally got back to Dimako the first full week of January just in time to teach. I delayed my return till the last minute not because I didn't want to go to post, but because my house isn't ready.

I've been looking for a house almost since I got to post in August. I finally found one in late November and got it approved. Peace Corps paid 6 months rent in advance, so that they had the money to finish up the house. It needed the bathroom to be finished up, a couple light fixtures installed, a wall around the compound and a roof for the latrine. The money should have been a gracious plenty for all of that to get done and only the wall would take a long time, but today is January 26th and I still am not in my house. 

I've been living in my postmate's house for the past two weeks. It's been very relaxing to be in a house with a fridge/freezer, a stove and furniture. It's really made me want to get my house done even more, but in the two weeks plus that I've been back, the only progress that's been made is a really big pit to drain my shower room, glass being added to one window and finding out that the house needs to be rewired.

My postmate, Jon, and I have a pretty good relationship, but I'm worried that when he gets back from his travels (he's been gone almost this whole time), I'm going to wear out my welcome. I would just really like to move and be done with it.

In the meantime, I've been teaching my 2 classes (having recently dropped one, because we got yet another English teacher at my school), watching a lot of movies, reading, and being so bored that I exercise twice a day. It's getting unhealthy. No one should be that bored, but when your laundry is all clean and so is the house and everything is organized and your papers are graded and your letters all answered, what else can you do?!

I think that I'm getting deeper into crazy-cat-ladydom. I spend a good amount of my time just watching George. He found a mouse outside and brought it in to play with and I thought it was really cute that he was batting around the tiny mouse corpse and then swallowed it whole. Do you see what I mean?!

Hopefully, I'll be moving soon, so I can get back into gardening and less into cat-watching. If anyone has any small entertainment ideas, send them my way! I've got stuff for quilting (Thanks, Jackie!), so maybe when I come back, I'll have a bad-ass pagne quilt and my sanity! I've rediscovered that I'm very good at solitaire and napping.